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Backyard Wedding

we are so on Est. 2026

Read · Philosophy

Finite and Infinite Games

TL;DR: There are games you play to win, and games you play to keep playing. That's the whole book, and it's enough. I listened to the audiobook on a flight, narrated by Carse himself, which added a certain charm.

On James P. Carse

Read · Cognition

Surfaces and Essences

Seven hundred pages arguing that analogy isn't a figure of speech — it's the engine. Every concept you have was built by comparison and gets used by comparison.

On Douglas Hofstadter & Emmanuel Sander

Read · Fiction

The Remains of the Day

Recommended alongside The Denial of Death, this too turned out to be a different book than I expected. Stevens, an aging butler, narrates with such restraint that the story lives as much in what he avoids saying as what he says. The audiobook is exceptionally cast, and Ishiguro's prose is the most I've enjoyed since Steinbeck.

On Kazuo Ishiguro

Cook · Baking

Biscuits, as a Gesture

A biscuit can’t be faked. Order the right flour a week early, keep the butter cold, and don’t rush — the effort is the message.

June 6, 2026

Cook · Spirits

In Praise of Rye

America’s original whiskey nearly vanished — and it’s the grain that makes a cocktail stand up straight. A first pour, and an Old Fashioned to start with.

June 6, 2026